Do it right away
When I
was a child, I never used to readily get things done, even if I knew I should
do them.
Against
my better judgment, I used to postpone my school homework for quite a while,
finally starting it at the last minute.
When it
was over, I couldn’t help repeating the same sort of thing even though I ran
into trouble each time.
These tendencies
lasted until I was 26 years old, though one day I learned the knack of giving
up my habit and sorted things out.
Come to
think of it, human psychology is really troublesome.
For
example, you might be thinking, “Whichever way I look at it, smoking is not
good for my health. I want to quit. I should quit.” But then again, you end up
thinking “I’ll stop someday before I get sick. But I’ll keep smoking until
then. Anyway, I’d rather not to stop now.”
The same
applies to thoughts such as “Drinking too much alcohol or eating too many sweets
or too much meat isn’t good for my health, so I should quit.”
In
addition to this, the same is true when you dilly-dally and put off things to
do from day to day, like I did with my homework.
Getting
rid of bad habits is also the same.
Even
though you know for sure that you should do something right away, you can’t
help but postpone whatever it is, thinking to yourself, “I’ll do it tomorrow.”
Then
tomorrow comes and you put it off again, thinking “I’ll definitely do it tomorrow.”
And you end
up putting it off until the last minute and start it in a rush.
Rushing
often leads to mistakes.
Sometimes,
in the end you might not even complete it on time.
In the
case of cigarettes, alcohol, and food, it is highly likely that it will be too late,
and you may be prone to serious illness.
Such
mentality represents what is known in psychology as “procrastination.”
I
cordially advise you, from my own bitter experience, to severely reflect on how
much you might be impairing your life by putting off what you absolutely think
you should be doing from day to day, if you think this may be the case.
At the
same time, one of the root causes of procrastination is that even though you
think you know that you should do it and you have to do it, you may be lax
about considering it deeply.
Another root
cause might be that procrastination has grown into habit.
So, the
most important thing to do first is thoroughly determine what will really
benefit yourself and everyone else.
Next, thoroughly
discern how foolish procrastination is for the things you think you should
really do.
Then be
resolute, put it into action right away, and keep it up, without being chained
by any preconceived ideas.
In this way,
your life will dramatically change for the better.
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